Morning friends... Its been a long silent for about 1 weeks?... Ive been busy with my works..busy as a mom and wife...and the most important is that I just came back from my hometown... yeay!
Will write more about my holiday with my precious son at kg.. but for the time being, let me share with this poem (i think so)... upss..taken from this blog!
不管你有没有男女朋友 都把它读完
你发觉到了吗？
爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、
恋著你，不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
她适合你，那你又适合她吗
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。
在某个聚餐的场合，
有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，
这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，
她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！
现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！」
听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，
他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了，
我以後再也不会等你了！
她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了
同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
他的男朋友说：「我想你一定忙坏了吧！」
接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流泪了
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。
你体会到了吗？
其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。」
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？』
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！他或许已经等你很久喽！
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分
那天朋友问我：「到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？」
我笑著跟他说：「其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！」
如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，
要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。
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Google Translation
**tidak semestinya betul kot translation, tp yg penting boleh faham isinya lah kan....
Whether you have male and female friends have read it
Have you noticed it?
The feeling of love, always in a very sweet
I felt much more a stay, one more person to help you share,
You finally no longer alone, at least one person thinking of you,
Lianzhao you, regardless of anything,
As long as together, that is good,
But slowly, with the deeper understanding of
You begin to discover each other's shortcomings,
So the problem occurred one after,
You start trouble, tired, or even want to escape,
Some say love is like picking up rocks,
Always want to pick the one that fits your
But how do you know what when to pick it?
She suits you, then you may also suit her.
In fact, love is like terrazzo,
Perhaps just picked up, you are not so satisfied,
But remember that people are resilient,
A lot of things can be changed,
As long as you are determined to have the courage
Its everywhere to pick up unknown stone,
Not as good will already have stone polished, you start to wear?
Many people think that because of the feelings faded,
So people would become lazy.
Wrong!
In fact, the first to be inert to conquer,
Feelings will lighten.
At some dinners occasions,
It was suggested to eat more shrimp body good
At this time there is a middle-aged man suddenly said, "Ten years ago, when my wife or my girlfriend,
She said eat ten shrimp, I peel twenty to her!
Now, if she wants me to help her peel shrimp shell, kidding! I could not even help her undress no interest, and also peeling shrimp shell blanket! '
Hear that? Got it?
No wonder more and more people just want to talk about a lifetime of love,
Has refused to marriage.
Because, marriage easy to become lazy.
If everyone
Too lazy speech
Too lazy to listen
Too lazy to create surprise,
Too lazy to tenderness
Between husband and wife or lover,
How would gradually divergence far gradually silent it?
So remember:
Dynamic love
Modest hospitality irrigation
Love, is not lazy Oh!
There are a couple Meet after work to dining, shopping,
But the girl because the company delayed the meeting,
When she arrived Mao Zhaoyu has been more than 30 minutes late,
His boyfriend was very unhappy to say:
Every time you so, now I did not in any mood,
I will no longer wait for you!
She was thinking: Perhaps they no future
The same in the same place, another couple is also facing the same situation;
The girl arrived half an hour late,
His boyfriend, said: "I think you must be too busy now!"
Then he wiped away the girl face of rain, and take off his jacket covered in girls who
At the moment, the girl in tears
But the flow of her tears on my face is warm.
Do you realize it?
In fact, love, hate often just us an idea!
Love not only to understand tolerance more timely
Many things may just be that changing your mind too!
Do you understand?
When someone loves you, and you think he is good.
That does not mean you would choose him.
We always say: "I'm looking for a love of the people will love."
But when the other asked you what love is love,
You can not answer him, because you do not know.
Yes, we always think that we will find a people who love love.
But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find what they once naive.
If never started, how do you know she will love love that person?
In fact, love the feeling, experienced a lot of things together until after the discovery.
Perhaps everyone would want to be able to find their own minds of one hundred percent of the partner,
But you have not thought about, "you will have already been quietly pay you for a long time, but you not find it it? '
So, still a closer look at the people around you! He may have been waiting for you a long time myself!
All the expectations and hopes are only Qi Bafen; remaining two or three points to love yourself.
If you continue to love more, is likely to give each other a heavy pressure, so that each breath, completely lost the love of fun.
So remember,
Drink no more than six drunk
Do not eat more than seven full,
Love a person no more than eight
Day a friend asked me: "in the end how to be considered is the love of one person?"
I smiled and said to him: "In fact, the concept of love for everyone is not the same, said on a call to enlighten, but fear the wrong hand, becomes misleading it would be bad!"
If you are confused for love, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration:
Love a person,
To learn more, but also open solution;
To apologize, but also thanks;
To admit, but also error correction;
Be considerate, but also understanding;
Is to accept, rather than endure;
Is tolerant, not condoned;
Support, not dominate;
Is sympathy, not questioned;
Is talk, not a complaint;
Is memorable but not forgotten;
Exchange, not everything accountable;
Is quietly praying for each other, rather than to the many other requirements;
Can be romantic, but do not waste;
Can always holding hands, but it should not break.
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